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Horse Re-Homing – Just rip open my chest and stomp on my heart with a hob-nail boot

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9:25 am
October 1, 2009


Miss Dana

Georgia

Big Chicken

posts 79

Big Sigh………………

So we have two horses.  Ranger and Snickers.  We hardly ever ride.  DH takes his to the mountains about twice a year and also does a two hour ride about once a month.  Other than that they eat grass, grain and are pasture ornaments…………….to the tune of 800 dollars a months.  That's right….800 dollars.  And that doesn't include shot, trims and the occassional colic or cough vet visit.

I finally decided it was time to investigate finding a new home.  A sweet gal who works for Chick fila headquarters and also volunteers for Camp Winshape and who lives on the Chick fila owner's property has fallen in love with Ranger.

I know she would give him tons of love and a great place to stay…but for now, he would be the only horse in a 8-9 acre pasture.  Cows nearby but no other horses.  Sleepy Cow

I'm wondering how he would handle this….  Would he be scared?  Bug Eyed  They told her she could get two horses, so that's an option.

Why is this so hard?  How will he adjust?  Will he take it personally?  How can I get over the guilt? And within one month of giving him away, are we then finally going to find the perfect house with land where I could have kept him???

"It's better to have it and not need it than to need it and not have it." Mama

9:35 am
October 1, 2009


SarahGrace

Mighty Chicken

posts 166

No advice.  Sorry.  What a hard decision!  Hugs.Hug

4:38 pm
October 1, 2009


JeannieB

Columbia, South Carolina

Superstar

posts 1108

Oh Dana, I feel for you, it's almost like giving away a child.  Horses need to be around another aminal, he will be very lonely by himself.   I'm so sorry for you!!

Don't cry because it's over—smile because it happened!

6:21 pm
October 1, 2009


beeyourself

Guest

Oh…that makes me so sad! 

1:22 am
October 2, 2009


Flatlander

Moderator

posts 655

Ohhh how hard must this be for you.

Is it an option to borrow them both to her…untill you found that perfect spot and then they can come "home"?

7:08 am
October 2, 2009


CindyP

Hart, MI

Moderator

posts 4782

Oh, a fabulous idea Astrid!  Dana, can that be done?  or the chance to visit/ride once in a while?

Remember, there are no mistakes, only lessons. Love yourself, trust your choices, and everything is possible. ~ Cherie Carter-Scott

6:42 pm
October 2, 2009


Linda

Mighty Chicken

posts 458

My heart goes out to you. What a hard decision to make. But knowing thay he goes to a good home is some comfort.

11:07 am
October 4, 2009


johnzegirl

Rose City, TX

Mighty Chicken

posts 135

Goats (even one goat) are good companion animals if there is not another horse for company. Pygmy goats are used with Race Horses because they are high strung and often travel  or have to be boarded alone. I have had single horses in the past and they will do okay on there own if the owner spends a little time each day with them.

8:45 pm
November 6, 2009


Remudamom

Midwest

Big Chicken

posts 51

I'd let her have them both.  They need company.   Right now if you need to re home your horses you will be very lucky to find someone who will take them both.  People are turning horses loose to fend for themselves.  I've even heard stories of ladies that leave their trailers to ride off on a trail ride and come back a couple of hours later to find a strange horse abandoned and tied to their trailer.

I'm thankful that my six cost me next to nothing to keep, but a couple of years ago I had 22.  Fortunately I can take my time selling the ones I don't need, and we quit breeding three yrs ago.

If it'a not an Arabian it's only a horse.

8:25 pm
January 17, 2010


MrsC

California

Big Chicken

posts 24

I know I'm a bit late to this post. Dana – how is your heart these days?

We took in two horses (without previous experience) – one of which was a rescue and the second one is a young "down-right-rotten" colt. We love them both to pieces but have spent a small fortune on helping them return to good health.

When we take one horse out for a walk (been four months and neither horse is yet rideable – one too young and the second one is an exracer and requires retraining) the other goes crazy (will cry the entire time). As we discovered (and was recommended on a previous post), goats make great pets. Our horses still cry when one leaves, but w/the goats present, it isn't nearly as bad.

Sorry Dana about having to rehome your horse. It was a very responsible and brave thing to do!



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