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	<title>Comments on: Splendor in the Grass</title>
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	<description>Life in Ordinary Splendor</description>
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		<title>By: Lynn Daniels</title>
		<link>http://suzannemcminn.com/blog/2007/09/04/splendor-in-the-grass/#comment-12663</link>
		<dc:creator>Lynn Daniels</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2007 13:01:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yay for Suzanne!  Leave that guilt far far behind.

What would I do to give myself an HEA?  Get read of that last 5 pounds and keep it off, grab my family and move to Montana, and maneuver myself into a position where I could visit Yellowstone National Park every day for the rest of my life.

Just those three things would make me a very happy camper.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; display:block; width:40px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://lynndaniels.com/blog/'><img alt='' src='http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/75a8101c2d232c3a034616901eca3e12?s=40&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fsuzannemcminn.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2Fgrav.jpg%3Fs%3D40&amp;r=G' class='avatar avatar-40 photo' height='40' width='40' /></a></span>Yay for Suzanne!  Leave that guilt far far behind.</p>
<p>What would I do to give myself an HEA?  Get read of that last 5 pounds and keep it off, grab my family and move to Montana, and maneuver myself into a position where I could visit Yellowstone National Park every day for the rest of my life.</p>
<p>Just those three things would make me a very happy camper.</p>
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		<title>By: TeresaH</title>
		<link>http://suzannemcminn.com/blog/2007/09/04/splendor-in-the-grass/#comment-12662</link>
		<dc:creator>TeresaH</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2007 11:31:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No guilt allowed Suzanne---at least not for long!

I&#039;d give myself more will power to exercise more and lose more weight.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; display:block; width:40px' ><img alt='' src='http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/72365afb941c876dfd05992c81a1c29c?s=40&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fsuzannemcminn.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2Fgrav.jpg%3Fs%3D40&amp;r=G' class='avatar avatar-40 photo' height='40' width='40' /></span>No guilt allowed Suzanne&#8212;at least not for long!</p>
<p>I&#8217;d give myself more will power to exercise more and lose more weight.</p>
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		<title>By: Marianne</title>
		<link>http://suzannemcminn.com/blog/2007/09/04/splendor-in-the-grass/#comment-12660</link>
		<dc:creator>Marianne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2007 10:15:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nothing like deciding your life is exactly as it should be.  What a happy post! :snoopy:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; display:block; width:40px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://www.reading-writing.blogspot.com'><img alt='' src='http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/fd806b0f1605acf8354a21061f9560ee?s=40&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fsuzannemcminn.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2Fgrav.jpg%3Fs%3D40&amp;r=G' class='avatar avatar-40 photo' height='40' width='40' /></a></span>Nothing like deciding your life is exactly as it should be.  What a happy post! <img src='http://suzannemcminn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/snoopy.gif' alt=':snoopy:' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Heather Harper</title>
		<link>http://suzannemcminn.com/blog/2007/09/04/splendor-in-the-grass/#comment-12655</link>
		<dc:creator>Heather Harper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2007 01:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mothers and guilt?  Pushaw. ;)

Yay for you.  Your guilt is all but melted by now.

 :purr:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; display:block; width:40px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://www.heatherharper.blogspot.com'><img alt='' src='http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/9f6f5e9179f77e5e0734a4f7451c6fdf?s=40&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fsuzannemcminn.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2Fgrav.jpg%3Fs%3D40&amp;r=G' class='avatar avatar-40 photo' height='40' width='40' /></a></span>Mothers and guilt?  Pushaw. <img src='http://suzannemcminn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Yay for you.  Your guilt is all but melted by now.</p>
<p> :purr:</p>
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		<title>By: Brandy</title>
		<link>http://suzannemcminn.com/blog/2007/09/04/splendor-in-the-grass/#comment-12653</link>
		<dc:creator>Brandy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 23:10:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wish flipping my calender over to September meant cooler weather. It&#039;s 93 here today! 
As for guilt, you deserve to be happy, no guilt should enter the equation. 
I am pretty happy, things are the way I like them. (Except for Daughters adolescence!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; display:block; width:40px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://www.bookmom.blogspot.com'><img alt='' src='http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/9d70d92c81a94991e590e5b36c27021a?s=40&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fsuzannemcminn.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2Fgrav.jpg%3Fs%3D40&amp;r=G' class='avatar avatar-40 photo' height='40' width='40' /></a></span>I wish flipping my calender over to September meant cooler weather. It&#8217;s 93 here today!<br />
As for guilt, you deserve to be happy, no guilt should enter the equation.<br />
I am pretty happy, things are the way I like them. (Except for Daughters adolescence!)</p>
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		<title>By: Dru</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dru</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 22:49:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No guilt allowed.  You deserve every happiness that comes your way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; display:block; width:40px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://www.dallsite.com/blog.html'><img alt='' src='http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/082d010316d646973b6e7318e50d3108?s=40&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fsuzannemcminn.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2Fgrav.jpg%3Fs%3D40&amp;r=G' class='avatar avatar-40 photo' height='40' width='40' /></a></span>No guilt allowed.  You deserve every happiness that comes your way.</p>
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		<title>By: Magdalena Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Magdalena Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 22:11:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Suzanne,

I applaud you for your wisdom and strength to make tough choices. 

Guilt seems to be very big with us, doesn&#039;t it?  I think women, as a rule, do guilt very, very well.  Which is bad.  In my father&#039;s family, though, Guilt is genetic, and most of us got a healthy dose of it in our DNA. As an only child, I may have received more than my fair share.  Not sure that&#039;s scientific, but if you knew me better you might agree...

What would I do with my life to give myself a happy ending?  I think I&#039;m in the process:  Trying to move beyond Guilt and Fear, and putting myself out into the world as a Writer.  For years I wished, but didn&#039;t act. Submitting the first manuscript to a contest, then to a publisher, were big steps for me. The first acceptance was an amazing piece of validation.  (Which  could be a topic for another day...)</description>
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<p>I applaud you for your wisdom and strength to make tough choices. </p>
<p>Guilt seems to be very big with us, doesn&#8217;t it?  I think women, as a rule, do guilt very, very well.  Which is bad.  In my father&#8217;s family, though, Guilt is genetic, and most of us got a healthy dose of it in our DNA. As an only child, I may have received more than my fair share.  Not sure that&#8217;s scientific, but if you knew me better you might agree&#8230;</p>
<p>What would I do with my life to give myself a happy ending?  I think I&#8217;m in the process:  Trying to move beyond Guilt and Fear, and putting myself out into the world as a Writer.  For years I wished, but didn&#8217;t act. Submitting the first manuscript to a contest, then to a publisher, were big steps for me. The first acceptance was an amazing piece of validation.  (Which  could be a topic for another day&#8230;)</p>
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		<title>By: Estella</title>
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		<dc:creator>Estella</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 21:05:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would love to feel less guilt about two failed marriages.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; display:block; width:40px' ><img alt='' src='http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/969d59208dc9cfa9c25f058b948635b6?s=40&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fsuzannemcminn.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2Fgrav.jpg%3Fs%3D40&amp;r=G' class='avatar avatar-40 photo' height='40' width='40' /></span>I would love to feel less guilt about two failed marriages.</p>
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		<title>By: catslady</title>
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		<dc:creator>catslady</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 19:14:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Give yourself a lot of credit for not letting the guilt stop you from doing what you felt you needed to do. If I could make a new ending it would be to have the nerve to do things instead of letting the guilt keep me where I am.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; display:block; width:40px' ><img alt='' src='http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/34067bf5db90123a3faeeec8182096b9?s=40&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fsuzannemcminn.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2Fgrav.jpg%3Fs%3D40&amp;r=G' class='avatar avatar-40 photo' height='40' width='40' /></span>Give yourself a lot of credit for not letting the guilt stop you from doing what you felt you needed to do. If I could make a new ending it would be to have the nerve to do things instead of letting the guilt keep me where I am.</p>
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		<title>By: Bonnie Ferguson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bonnie Ferguson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 19:08:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would not be so hard on myself!  :elephant:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; display:block; width:40px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://www.bonnieferguson.com/blog/'><img alt='' src='http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/0ee23cb34191fd46126691c8312171f5?s=40&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fsuzannemcminn.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2Fgrav.jpg%3Fs%3D40&amp;r=G' class='avatar avatar-40 photo' height='40' width='40' /></a></span>I would not be so hard on myself!  :elephant:</p>
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